Making Mountains

My daughter has this thing about making mountains. In the yard she finds dirt or even grass, but today it was sand at the beach. I am not sure where she got the idea, but somehow today I saw it as something more than a child’s game. Today she made mountains for each of the people she loves and then proceeded to dismantle them. it made me think of the mountains that we build for ourselves. On the one hand, we set goals that become our mountains to climb. These are good mountains so long as we are willing to either make the effort reach them and to keep them in sight or if we are willing to set them aside as something we no longer need. I actually think this kind of mountain is critical to avoiding a kind of complacency that leads to a life without goals. Unfortunately i also think there are too many people who are so afraid of not reaching them that they refuse to set goals or who are too afraid to go after what they really want, so the mountain remains something they simply look at from time to time as something beautiful, but too far off to reach. I guess i don’t believe in the unclimbable mountain and for me the joy of life is in both the attempt and the achievements of reaching our own personal summits.

On the other hand there are also the mountains we build up as obstacles to our achievements, the ones that obscure our view of the promised lands beyond and which we use as excuses. I suppose it was these mountains I was thinking of as I watched my daughter demonstrate how easy it was to both build them up and to dismantle them. it was as if she was showing me something in her two year old insight about our ability to overcome and the power we possess in our freedom.
We spend our lives making mountains and it’s up to us whether we see them as exciting goals to reach for or as the unattainable which stands in the way of what we really want. I think we need more mountain climbers in this world and I for one am always looking for the next one to climb.

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