It is truly a gift to know what you want. To be consistent in your likes and desires (not in a sense of excluding those things which you may not like, but rather a confidence in the things that you do) can make some of life’s decisions much simpler. When I asked my daughter what she wanted her pumpkin to look like there was no hesitation; “cheese.” Cheese is one of her favorite things (especially orange cheese) so I suppose it just seemed obvious that her pumpkin should be carved to represent something she likes. It was just as simple for her when asked what kind of birthday party she wanted to have; “orange” and she has already decided on “white” for her three year old party. If only every decision we make could be this simple. “This is what I like, there is no need for it to be something else, so this is what it will be.” Maybe most of our decisions probably should or at least could be that simple. It’s not a question of denying variety or of avoiding new things, it’s a question of finding that thing which you truly love or which you enjoy and letting that love or joy be your guide.