To be made both proud and humble doing the same thing on the same day is a wonderful learning opportunity. Out with my kids and my dad we ventured to the science center where they have all sorts of tests for your ability. They have tests for your balance, your reflexes, your hand-eye coordination, your sense of smell, and your flexibility. It was in this last that I was made both proud and humble. The chart above the test said that the average male of my age could sit and reach 12.5 inches so I sat down and gave it a try. You are supposed to average three attempts and mine came out at 21 inches so I was feeling pretty good about my flexibility. Later that night I tried out a new yoga routine on my DVR feeling very flexible before I started after my science center results. Just minutes into the flow I was asked to stretch in ways I do not stretch and to bend in ways that I do not bend and I wasn’t even close. It was actually an interesting moment of being humbled, challenged, frustrated and thoughtful about whether this was actually something I needed to work towards. I love a challenge so while a part of me feels a satisfaction that I continue to improve and very little desire to repeat that routine, another part of me says, “I guess I have a long way to go.”
Humility
Life is fun that way and filled with surprises as we are lifted up in one moment and totally deflated in the next. Sometimes it’s something silly like yoga and others it’s something you have poured yourself into. Every week I listen to far more complaints than praises no matter how well things seem to be going or how good I feel about what I have done. Humility is a balance. In order to be humble you still have to have confidence and be comfortable with yourself otherwise you end up not humbled, but likely depressed. Humility is a gift to those who choose to learn from it or be challenged by it rather than shamed by it.